I’ve never been a typical girl when it comes to sex. I’m the one who’s most likely got a higher sex drive than your boyfriend and more likely willing to do what you’re not. That doesn’t mean there’s something wrong with you or that there’s something wrong with me. We all have our own attitudes about sex – I just happen to see sex very differently from a lot of people. A lot.
I’m not going to lie.
I love sex. I love everything about it – it’s not even about the intimacy. Yeah, sure, the intimacy and reaching that level of connectedness with someone is great. But that’s something I want to save for a relationship, and in the meantime, I’m certainly not looking to abstain or restrict myself from having fun and missing out on a lot of pleasure.
And being single like I am now offers me the opportunities that I wasn’t able to have in my relationship. Don’t get me wrong. I had an amazing sex life in the relationship I was in – to be honest, it’s probably what kept us going for a couple years longer than we should have. But now, I’m single, I’m not responsible to anyone but myself and I’m safe about what I do.
One night stands? Sure, why the hell not! Friends with benefits? Even better, especially when they’re packing and they know their way around a woman’s body – I’m sure as hell not passing that up!
I’ve been told by people that there is nothing conventional about me, that I’m sort of a new age hippie. I suppose in some ways, they’re completely right. Now if only there was a little bit better selection of men, there might be some more free love going on around here.