Hi, I’m Mark and I love Wicked Women.
That may sound like a confession, but it’s actually a happily stated fact. When Jenn asked me to write as the “average guy” on her new site, I was happy to bear the torch for Y chromosomes everywhere. I’m not sure what the definition of average actually is these days, but I’ll do my best to represent.
Guys have several basic instincts – but I don’t think it takes an anthropology major to understand: “Man hungry. Man eat.” And in today’s modern society, all of those survival based instincts are easily met. So naturally, we think about sex – how to get it, how to get more of it, how to get more of it, how to make it better, and how to get more of it. Now, I’m probably not surprising anyone reading this with my simple observations and experience. But the facts remain – and a few corner cases aside, this is what drives men.
So, like I lead with, I love Wicked Women. I love women who love sex, who are sexy, who know what gives them pleasure, who know how to give me pleasure, who want lots of pleasure, and who also get pleasure out of giving me pleasure. Deep down, this is more or less what guys want, even if they aren’t sure how to say it (or if they want to admit it).
Many, many poor decisions have been made by men stemming from their desire to get sex. Some are comical (like that guy in the crazy attention-grabbing outfit), while others are unforgivable. But the base, underlying urge to have sex (by both genders) isn’t wrong, nor should it be shunned by society. Obviously, this site has no problems embracing this view.
I’m not exactly sure what I’ll end up doing with this column; but for starters I’ll be tactfully honest, speak my mind, and generally try to generate a sex-positive atmosphere. I’ll also make the call right now: if there’s ever a topic you want me to cover; e-mail me and I’ll see what input I can provide.
Till next time, loyal readers,